This is what the majority of straight slash fans think gay people are like. These are the same people who, when being called out for contributing to the fetishisation of homosexuality and its use as wank material, will proudly state that writing gay porn makes them LGBT friendly and that they really do support us, guys! Look at all the m/m slashfic they write!
that’s extra creepy, not only does she fetishize gay people in general, she’s fetishizing HER OWN HYPOTHETICAL SON.
This shit is not okay.
And on top of fetishizing homosexuality, she’s stereotyping it as well. Let’s say she were to have a gay son - who’s to say that son will want nail polish? Who’s to say that he’ll want feminine clothing? Who’s to say that he’ll like going shopping? Finding out that somebody is gay should not result in instantly stripping them of their personal identity, and replacing it with the identity that you think all people in that group should have. Being a gay male does not automatically make you feminine.
Yes, there are some gay males who are feminine. There are also straight males who are feminine. There are also gay males who are extremely masculine. Your sexuality does not define the way you think, act, or dress.
If you have a son who comes out to you, do you know what you do? You treat him life a fucking person, not like a stereotype.
The fact that she seems to instantly equate homosexuality with bondage and kinky sex makes me even more uncomfortable.